February 25, 2005

I Am My Mama's Son

Are there any more powerful words in any language? I think not. Rob is carrying a powerful burden here. My heart reaches out to him, because he is a great and dear friend. But those words speak volumes to me. Of a man who knows his origins, and who he owes his life, wisdom, and sense of love to.

Rob is a great guy because of how his mother raised him. And his father, of course. Mothers are the great sculptors of our souls, though. That is a given. One's father quarries the raw stone that he lugs home, then watches, in amazement, as a mother sculpts that uneven, unwieldy mass into a child, then a boy, then, finally, a man. Who she is proud of. And who engenders pride in himself.

It isn't rocket science, but it is damned hard work, and I've seen it go awry many a time. To produce a child who turns into a man you are proud of, who treats others with fairness, grace, and dignity, is as immortal an achievement as any mother, any woman, can ever hope for.

Miss Elva has done that. Twice. That is powerful, and affirming.

My thoughts are with Rob tonight, and tomorrow, and on and on. His mama is tough. She'll continue to be tough. Wish them the best, Intrepids. They are the the salt of the earth, and my kind of people.

Posted by Velociman at February 25, 2005 10:12 PM
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I know the Smith family real good, they are all good people. I worked for Rob's dad for years and his mama use to cash my payroll checks, when she worked at Kmart. Dave is a good boy also. I wish them well and hope she does not suffer, cancer is a motherfucker. Take care Mrs Smith.

Posted by: Catfish at February 25, 2005 11:21 PM

.. I only know Rob... but I wish I could have written this post...

. I feel very much for he AND his Mother...

Posted by: Eric at February 25, 2005 11:50 PM

Oh, words are hard to find.

Velociman, you honor them both well.

Posted by: Christina at February 26, 2005 12:22 AM

Thanks, Kim.

Posted by: Acidman at February 26, 2005 9:56 AM

You say it so well.

Posted by: Sam at February 26, 2005 10:13 AM
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